7 Simple Tips For The Best Sleep Ever


Sleep. For many Meno-She’s (women aged over 40) difficulties getting to sleep or staying asleep can be one of the first signs of perimenopause and it’s a killer.

Don’t we all know how important a good night’s sleep is for our sanity? But what you may not know is it’s also key to hormone balance, cognitive function and regulating your weight.

Here are five tips to help you try to get – and stay – in the land of nod for a life-boosting eight or so hours:

1. Go To Bed Early

I know, I know. This can be difficult when you’ve got a TV programme or book you’re hooked on, you’re a Netflix addict(!) or you have so much to do and not enough hours in the day (hello 21st Century). Truly, lights out at about 9.30-10pm can make all the difference to how you look, feel and function. It’s not called beauty sleep for nothing! We should also call it wellness sleep – it doesn’t sound quite so good though does it?

Seriously though, the body rejuvenates at a cellular level between 10 pm and 2 am so it’s a crucial time of healing and re-jigging. It takes discipline at first, but try it for three weeks and feel the difference it makes.

2. Change The Way You Look At Sleep

Sleep is one of the most underrated life tools in the world, and sleep issues are reaching epidemic proportions. Instead of looking at sleep as something we just ‘do’ (if we can) we need to look at it as crucial to our quality of life.

Putting sleep on our priority list will make us more effective, productive and…well…it has to be said…nicer. If you’re tired it’s easy to be bitchy.

3. Get Rid Of Artificial Light

We’re fortunate to live in a time of flicking a switch for light but it does tend to play havoc with our circadian rhythm, which sets our genetic clocks for things like energy and cellular repair. One way to trick your brain into turning to sleep mode is to dim the lights and load software onto your phone and computer that nixes blue light. It’s well documented how using your devices at night can interfere with your sleep. I use F.lux – it’s great.

4. Take An Epsom Salts Bath

I can’t rave about this one enough. Epsom salts are technically magnesium sulfate and magnesium is a mineral we all need and a lot of us are lacking in due to depleted soil levels and lifestyle factors such as processed foods and prescription meds. Soaking in the salts helps you absorb magnesium topically and the bath also acts as a detox plus it relieves pain and joint inflammation. In addition, it can help with your circulatory system, cardiovascular health and blood sugar so it should on the must-do list of all midlife women.

For good measure why not add a few drops of a good lavender essential oil – a well-known relaxant. Inexpensive and simple.

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5. Journal

If you’re anything like me, you’re an over-thinker and it’s difficult to shut your brain off at night. One trick I’ve found is to write out the experiences of the day and my to-do list for tomorrow in order of priority. Then it’s all ‘out’ on the page so to speak and I can let it go from my brain. Plus the feeling of ticking off the list with a ‘done’ is brilliant.

6. Seek Out A Yoga Nidra Or Deep Relaxation Yoga Class

Yes, there’s a whole lot of hoopla out there about yoga right now, but it’s not all about svelte, ultra-flexible bodies dressed in Lululemon. Yoga is actually about relaxation and aligning our energies for wellness through postures and breathing.

Yoga Nidra and Deep Relaxation (aka Deep Restore) are incredible. They’re like having the deepest sleep without actually being asleep although many do start snoring. This is a good sign! Scientifically, they say it’s even better for us than sleep – it’s definitely a proven stress reliever. It’s magic, anyone can do it and it can make all the difference to not just your sleep, but also your midlife transition. A no-brainer for your life really.

7. Take A Good Supplement

I have to tell you that one of the scientifically tested benefits of 40+ and 55+ is better sleep and indeed many women have reported improvements.

Get 40+ or 55+ here

Ingested magnesium is also a brilliant relaxant; we’ve got it in 55+. If you take 40+ you could add a teaspoon of magnesium powder to a smoothie.

Chamomile tea is another goody for helping you go off to the land of nod.

I’d love to know how you get on. Don’t hesitate to drop me a line here if you have something to share.

Sweet dreams.

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This is the time when menstruation is well and truly over, the ovaries have stopped producing high levels of sex hormones and for many ladies, perimenopause symptoms subside.

Estrogen has protective qualities and the diminished levels mean organs such as your brain, heart and bones become more vulnerable. It’s also a key lubricant so your lips may become drier, your joints less supple and your vagina might be drier. In addition, your thyroid, digestion, insulin, cortisol and weight may alter.

At this juncture, a woman might experience an increase in the signs of reduced estrogen but she should have a decrease of perimenopause symptoms. That said, some women will experience symptoms like hot flushes for years or even the rest of their lives.


Peri = ‘near’

Most females begin to experience the symptoms of perimenopause in their mid-forties. Your progesterone levels decline from your mid-30s but it’s generally from around 40 that the rest of your sex hormones begin to follow suit. 

Perimenopause is a different experience for every woman and some women may barely notice it. The first indicators are usually changes to the monthly cycle. This means that for some ladies, this can be accompanied by things like sore breasts, mood swings, weight gain around the belly, and fatigue as time goes on.

For those with symptoms it can be a challenging time physically, mentally and emotionally.

Importantly, perimenopause lasts – on average – four to 10 years. The transition is usually a gradual process and many women enter perimenopause without realising.