The Gift of Menopause

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When talking about menopause among friends and family I have heard some women say “I never went through menopause”.

This is like saying “I never went through puberty”.

What they actually mean is that they didn’t experience some of the more common signs of menopause. Symptoms such as hot flushes and night sweats alert women to being in perimenopause. But just because they didn’t experience these signs doesn’t mean they didn’t go through menopause.

Because every woman does if she lives long enough.

Menopause, consisting of perimenopause, menopause and post-menopause is a universal female life stage. It’s not an option, it’s a reality. And what’s more, it’s truly a gift. Yes, I know it doesn’t feel like it. But the way I look at it, menopause is the gift of healthy living.

The most obvious reason for this gift is being able to say goodbye to our childbearing years. I know that many of us mourn the passing of our fertility. But imagine the alternative. If we didn’t have menopause – we would continue to menstruate and have children until our bodies could no longer hold out. Menopause closes that door and opens another – the doorway to healthy ageing.

There’s nothing sexy about the concept of healthy ageing you may be muttering. However, with women living into their 80’s these days, we can expect to live more than 30 years post-menopause. So best we live them in good health!

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Compared to our grandmothers we are less equipped to do this. We lead sedentary lives these days. Indeed, compare how their daily chores must have looked in relation to ours today with our automatic everything. Even when their first TV set arrived they still had to get up from their seat to turn it off! Throw in our increased exposure to stress and no wonder so many of us are ill-prepared for a healthy life post-menopause.

Perimenopause is our body’s alarm clock telling us it’s time for us to be more mindful of our health. During our 20’s and 30’s, we may have been able to get away without optimal nutrition or any exercise. But it’s not so in our 40’s and 50’s and beyond. This is the time for regular health checks and adopting a preventative health plan. Literally, your life depends upon it.

For those in the sandwich generation – women caught between raising children and caring for elderly parents while holding down a full-time job – this isn’t easy. In fact, it’s often the time in your life when exercise goes out the door and your nutrition suffers. On top of that, you may be entering perimenopause and life gets even tougher. Remember, perimenopause is your personal gift – telling you that it’s time to proactively look after your body and your health. And here’s why…

The wellbeing of your 40 or 50-year-old body is under threat from:

 

Cardiovascular disease including heart attack and stroke

Globally, cardiovascular disease, often thought to be a ‘male’ problem, is the number one killer of women. In 2013, 2920 women died of heart disease in New Zealand. That’s eight women a day – or about 55 each week.

 

Weight gain

As you age your metabolism slows, making weight gain an issue even as early as age 35 or 40. Excess weight increases your risk of cancer, strains your heart and joints and puts you at risk of developing diabetes.

 

Diabetes

Obesity and diabetes are rapidly growing concerns. A recent study in New Zealand showed 31% of adults are obese and another 35% overweight. The onset of Type 2 diabetes is linked to obesity and is a huge factor in heart disease and heart attacks.

Osteoporosis

Rapid bone thinning occurs early in post-menopause when estrogen levels plummet. Consequently, this puts your bones at risk of fracture. A serious fracture, such as the hip, can put you at risk of pneumonia and other complications of being bed-bound.

Cancer

Your risk of breast cancer continues to increase every year of your life until you reach roughly 80 years old. Meanwhile, the risk of other cancers such as colon increase from age 50 and beyond.

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The good news is, that often these conditions can be prevented. Your independence and quality of life in the last third of your life can be maintained. Lives can be saved. 

But only if you take a proactive approach to your health. Visit your doctor and work with them to prevent disease or catch a problem early. Assess your diet, set an exercise plan, understand how to control stress. Above all, don’t fall in to the trap of assuming that because you feel fine you must be healthy.

As we go through our 30’s and 40’s we aren’t thinking about these health concerns. They are for when we get old! We have busy lives – working, caring for family and running households. And along the way, we cross the unmarked line into the life stage when we need to start taking care of ourselves.

Perimenopause is your red flag telling you that line has been crossed. Look for the signs. Embrace them and act – now.

Menopause is your body’s precious gift.

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Post-menopause


This is the time when menstruation is well and truly over, the ovaries have stopped producing high levels of sex hormones and for many ladies, perimenopause symptoms subside.

Estrogen has protective qualities and the diminished levels mean organs such as your brain, heart and bones become more vulnerable. It’s also a key lubricant so your lips may become drier, your joints less supple and your vagina might be drier. In addition, your thyroid, digestion, insulin, cortisol and weight may alter.

At this juncture, a woman might experience an increase in the signs of reduced estrogen but she should have a decrease of perimenopause symptoms. That said, some women will experience symptoms like hot flushes for years or even the rest of their lives.

Perimenopause

Peri = ‘near’

Most females begin to experience the symptoms of perimenopause in their mid-forties. Your progesterone levels decline from your mid-30s but it’s generally from around 40 that the rest of your sex hormones begin to follow suit. 

Perimenopause is a different experience for every woman and some women may barely notice it. The first indicators are usually changes to the monthly cycle. This means that for some ladies, this can be accompanied by things like sore breasts, mood swings, weight gain around the belly, and fatigue as time goes on.

For those with symptoms it can be a challenging time physically, mentally and emotionally.

Importantly, perimenopause lasts – on average – four to 10 years. The transition is usually a gradual process and many women enter perimenopause without realising.